When a shitty situation/event/person is forced to be handled and consumed in a social situation.
or a sexual act:
A sexual act consisting of three people, at least one male. While the male is having anal intercourse, he pulls his shitty shaft out, rubs it between the ass cheeks of the anally assaulted partner, while the third person chugs it up.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)