A half-flaccid boner. Too limp to satisfy anyone in bed yet hard enough to be noticed through ones pants. Normally seen as a prelude to a full-fledged stiffy or an indication of erectile dysfunction.
He sat there reminiscing about the childhood days he spent with his uncle when a passerby happened to notice is growing alagappan.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.