There are two types of attraction, physical attraction and interpersonal attraction. physical attraction you can fix to some degree and interpersonal attraction you can also fix 100%. Generally attraction can be built and used in your favour to get what you desire. Attraction can be learnt. Some
people are more attractive than others. They call it 'value'. It is value that is importance and it is up to you to increase your value so hence make u more attractive. How to increase your value is a whole new ballgame.
To be attractive, is to increase your value and become what
people want and desire. Its a skillset that some
people have naturally or dont have at all.
If
people like spending time with you and always around you, then you are some what attractive to those
people, you
may not be attractive to everyone but too those people only.
Being attractive to most people is a unique skill that not many have but it can be learnt.
In female eyes, rock stars and famous singers and bands have high value whereas
non-famous
people have 'lower perceived value'. This value determines your attractive. You have to demonstrate value to be
seen as attractive.