A person who constantly takes your pillow, that you yourself picked out, & switches it out with their shitty pillow that they picked out. They then proceed to act as if THEY picked out the good pillow, & you should take the shitty pillow.
Or, a person who has discarded a pillow because "I don't like it. It doesn't work." - Complaining
Wife. Only to take it back, every night, after you (being the
husband), rescued
said pillow from a meaningless existence in the linen closet.