fem top

A feminine gay guy who plays the more dominant role in the relationship. Definitely the “pitcher” but looks like the “catcher”

Hey bottom! Giiiiiirl I done told you I was a fem top!

by ShearLove November 6, 2018

Fem-issle

An out of control female motor vehicle operator whose automobile resembles a 1.5 ton unguided missile.

That's the third god damn time today I've almost been killed by a fem-issle!

by Uncle T-bag 0317 May 30, 2011

no fats no fems

In the LGBTQ+ community, specifically gay men, the term "no fats no fems" refers to only being interested in connecting with other men that are "in shape and masculine". "No fats" means nobody overweight and "no fems" means nobody that has a feminine sounding voice, feminine behaviors or characteristics. This is a discriminatory phrase that is commonly used on dating apps, such as Grindr, when trying to romantically connect with other gay men.

*On Grindr*

Looking to meet new people for a good time - no fats no fems.

by isa14x August 28, 2020

fem-wood

the female equivalent of a male boner - a female hard-on

"Man, that guy got me so hot & horny I had major fem-wood all day long"

by dakine666 November 28, 2012

fem boy

Attractive males that are not buff and/or macho. This became very popular with the rise of anime.

"Look at that gorgeous fem boy with the long blonde hair!"

by Alie Vest April 20, 2004

Fem DSC

Female Dirt Star Complex (pronounced "Fem Disc")

A condition which arrises when a hot lady makes a cluster of concentrated remarks regarding her anus, anal sex, and things being inserted into her rectum, causing the man or woman who hears such remarks to become incapable of rational thought. Brain hazed by the thought of her dirt star.

Hey, man, did you check out that interview in Complex magazine, where they were asking that honey from Attack Of The Show all those questions? Her butt talk Fem DSC'd me something bad, yo.

by Dolecon Tokem January 12, 2009

hood fem

A gay man that is feminine but respected in the hood.

He a hood fem he don’t care about being fem it’s always stated he’s from the hood.

by Locutusjay December 21, 2022