Shiba is a pick-me because she wants all the guys for her and doesn't give a shit about their mental health.
by Mehbrhe May 14, 2023
Get the Pick-Memug. 
A pick me (sometimes spelled as pick-me or pickme) is someone who puts down members of their own identity group for validation from others. Commonly used to refer to women (pick me girls), but can also be seen in others. Pick-me men also tend to be performative males, often pretending to relate to women's problems (most commonly in cis men). They often play into stereotypes, disregarding what the people around them are actually like
Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Girl 1: "Jane is such a pick-me."
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
by f0reverxternally October 21, 2025
Get the pick-memug. by Abbxoanzoabsg April 2, 2024
Get the Pick memug. a person, specifically a woman, who will do anything extra to receive the attention and validation from men.
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speaking from experience (being friends with a pick-me), there are many people today who will do anything for the attention and validation from men.
there are men who will find humor off of r@pe/SA, misogyny, homophobia, racism, and more. a person who craves the attention from men will adapt to that type of humor to please problematic men. a person who craves attention from men will throw their own friends under the bus (specifically non-men) to praise other men; to put them first before anything.
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speaking from experience (being friends with a pick-me), there are many people today who will do anything for the attention and validation from men.
there are men who will find humor off of r@pe/SA, misogyny, homophobia, racism, and more. a person who craves the attention from men will adapt to that type of humor to please problematic men. a person who craves attention from men will throw their own friends under the bus (specifically non-men) to praise other men; to put them first before anything.
i really dislike sara, she is a pick me. i remember one time she purposely made fun of me in front of a huge group of boys just to see them all laugh... i never felt so embarrassed yet so betrayed in my entire life.
by gissguu March 19, 2022
Get the pick memug. An actor who gets in a play with a lot of assistance from actor friends and then ditches said actor friends in the play THEY ALL AUDITIONED FOR, then proceeds to suck up to other, 'superior' actors, director, stage manager, etc.. Typically acts different around friends than around superiors, much like the pick me girl.
by Cephalopedia December 1, 2023
Get the pick me actormug. Sentence 1: “Oh man, Jerry is over there apple picking and shit. What a shmuck.”
Sentence 2: Sometimes in order to find the right one, you gotta go apple picking.
Sentence 2: Sometimes in order to find the right one, you gotta go apple picking.
by ok_tofu December 20, 2022
Get the Apple pickingmug.