Not together enough to care about the finer things of life because you're too preoccupied with keeping yourself calm
Hey Susan, I wish I could make my mental ends meet so I could care about matching my clothes or keeping my room clean. All my energy is spent keeping myself calm and not depressed,
by Jonfurstn January 15, 2015
Get the mental ends meet mug.A person with a Perpetrator Mentality has the mindset that it isn't "an issue" if they cause harm to other people. They believe "the issue" is the natural reaction to the harm they cause, such as that of the victim, or anyone who calls them out.
Many perpetrators refuse to be accountable for their actions, so they create distractions. Perpetrators have made "victim" a dirty word. A victim is simply a person who was harmed, and they don't "choose" whether or not they are harmed. The perp does that.
Those with a Perpetrator Mentality encourage shame and blame towards their victims, and toward anyone who reports them to authorities (The Rat). These perps won't admit that they have poor communication skills. They believe they can gain power by controling other people, when true power lies in the ability to control their own self.
Many perpetrators refuse to be accountable for their actions, so they create distractions. Perpetrators have made "victim" a dirty word. A victim is simply a person who was harmed, and they don't "choose" whether or not they are harmed. The perp does that.
Those with a Perpetrator Mentality encourage shame and blame towards their victims, and toward anyone who reports them to authorities (The Rat). These perps won't admit that they have poor communication skills. They believe they can gain power by controling other people, when true power lies in the ability to control their own self.
"Gary says it isn't his fault or his problem that I'm depressed and lost my confidence, when he starved me of physical and emotional affection, while secretly bedding 3 of my friends. Gary has Perpetrator Mentality."
A) "My roommate blames me because someone at his party stole my tip money. He said only an idiot hides cash in their bedroom closet."
B) " Your roommate has perpetrator mentality. His friends should not have been allowed in your bedroom, especially with you at work."
A) "My roommate blames me because someone at his party stole my tip money. He said only an idiot hides cash in their bedroom closet."
B) " Your roommate has perpetrator mentality. His friends should not have been allowed in your bedroom, especially with you at work."
by PurpleTantrum October 27, 2023
Get the Perpetrator Mentality mug.Just the way eating too much sugary foods is bad for you, watching too much junk is also bad for you. Reels or sitting in front of the tv all morning, are examples of mental sugar. They're nice treats but you can't have too much of them or your brain goes fat and lazy
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Get the Mental Sugar mug.A phrase used to describe someone who's barely holding it together, but still managing to show up to life—often with chaotic vibes, questionable decisions, and a diet that can’t include bread.
by alw259 May 6, 2025
Get the mental issue, a walking talking semi functional mental issue mug.When a person behaves in a bizarre, unexpected, but creative way. Named after famous Dutch reality TV star Pol Stam
'Bro how did you even think of using your teeth to block that volleyball?'
'Man I've just got that Pol Stam Mentality'
'Man I've just got that Pol Stam Mentality'
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Get the Mental Misfire mug.The idea that a fictional character is absolutely indominable and can accomplish anything, usually the result of horrible writing or 9 year old writing.
Its namesake comes from indestructible Tarrasque of dungeons and dragons fame, a monster that is famously known for its overpowered nature and association with bad storytelling.
Its namesake comes from indestructible Tarrasque of dungeons and dragons fame, a monster that is famously known for its overpowered nature and association with bad storytelling.
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