vanilla dom

(n.) - A vanilla dom, sometimes referred to as a “vanilla top” or “vanilla dom top,” is a dominant subtype in the BDSM lexicon. It’s usually associated withIn the gay male community, but not exclusively. Vanilla doms are generally characterized by sexual arousal and identity related to dominant behavior, sexual top position and traditional sexual roles within the gender binary. What makes them unique to the broader LGBT/BDSM community is their openness to monogamy and trend to a more heteronormative approach to relationships and life. They’re generally attracted submissive, smooth, younger partners. While it’s not absolute, generally they avoid classic (clamps, paddles, chains) BDSM gear, multiple partners, circuit parties, PNP, etc. Often they are high earners and avoid drugs and alcohol and value fitness, health and industriousness.

Look at that fit daddy. He must be a vanilla dom.

by woolfgunphotobooth August 27, 2020

vanilla domme

A vanilla domme is a new Twitter phenomenon of people looking to cash in on newbie BDSM enthusiasts without having a clue.

It means 'I don't understand domination or fetish play but want to be praised and given money anyway'

Sally bought a cheap catsuit on Ebay and is now setting up her vanilla domme onlyfans site.

by curiousx10 March 18, 2021

vanilla with sprinkles

A vanilla with sprinkles person is someone who isn't exactly kinky or vanilla meaning they either vary or are somewhere in between.

"Im more of a vanilla with sprinkles, im into threesomes but i draw the line at blindfolds"

by actually batman October 22, 2017

vanilla coke

The only known liquid-state form of crack cocaine.

I need my fix so I'm gonna go buy a 12-pack of Vanilla Coke.

by Kharivas August 26, 2004

Sparkling Vanilla

After you have sex with an albino girl, she smiles and you wipe your cum on her teeth so they gleam in the sun light.

Someone please post a pic of an A&W cream soda can if you can't actually perform one. Albino girls are rare treasures. The porn for them is practically nonexistant. Even more so than midget.

by Karate Jesus December 08, 2004

Vanilla Sex

Sex that involves no twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey.

While Noah was one for a little kinkiness every now and then, Josh definitely prefers his vanilla sex.

by Blair February 10, 2004

Vanilla Vick

Nickname given to New York Giants Quaterback Daniel Jones

Vanilla Vick is so much faster then that running back lamar jackson!

by YoelG April 22, 2021