Interestingly enough, Char has many meanings and can refer to many things:
1) To burn something until it's partially or completely black
2) A charwoman (woman employed to clean houses or offices); to work as a charwoman
3) Tea (eh?)
4) Another word for "roast" and burn" after spitting out a sick comeback
5) A freshwater or marine fish like the trout, of northern countries. It is valued as a food and game fish.
6) Short form for character, especially with regards to video game characters or computer programming
7) Char siu, a kind of Chinese BBQ pork
8) Nickname for Charlotte
9) Chimchar!
1) To burn something until it's partially or completely black
2) A charwoman (woman employed to clean houses or offices); to work as a charwoman
3) Tea (eh?)
4) Another word for "roast" and burn" after spitting out a sick comeback
5) A freshwater or marine fish like the trout, of northern countries. It is valued as a food and game fish.
6) Short form for character, especially with regards to video game characters or computer programming
7) Char siu, a kind of Chinese BBQ pork
8) Nickname for Charlotte
9) Chimchar!
1) Their bodies were badly charred in the fire
2) She'd had to char and work in a grocery store to put herself through university
3) I'll have a cup of char with that
4) Ohhhhhh get charred son
5) Among other native delicacies, they give you fresh char
6) A Unicode code unit is a 16-bit char value; I switched my minecraft char to look like a
7) I was hungry so I decided to visit Chinatown and bought some Char siu buns to eat
8) Hey let's go get some Sushi Char, whaddya think?
9) Chimchar, use flamethrower!
2) She'd had to char and work in a grocery store to put herself through university
3) I'll have a cup of char with that
4) Ohhhhhh get charred son
5) Among other native delicacies, they give you fresh char
6) A Unicode code unit is a 16-bit char value; I switched my minecraft char to look like a
7) I was hungry so I decided to visit Chinatown and bought some Char siu buns to eat
8) Hey let's go get some Sushi Char, whaddya think?
9) Chimchar, use flamethrower!
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian September 16, 2020

"What you just did is morally unacceptable, I'm going to expose you and hope you learn your lesson."
"Who do you think you are, Judge Judy?? LOL."
"Who do you think you are, Judge Judy?? LOL."
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian October 31, 2021

Basically any concrete aspect of reality which shatters the personal idealized image of a future scenario or occurrence, often one that is highly meaningful to the individual.
You see... while our minds often think in abstract simplistic ways, reality is often chaotic, abrupt, arbitrary, and outright disagrees with our ideals, thereby 'refuting' the idealized. Other times, reality can make your ideals seem hypocritical. It can be quite a sad and disappointing realization. It sometimes makes you want to lock yourself inside your own world even more, only to subject yourself to reality when needed or when you feel competent or wise enough.
You see... while our minds often think in abstract simplistic ways, reality is often chaotic, abrupt, arbitrary, and outright disagrees with our ideals, thereby 'refuting' the idealized. Other times, reality can make your ideals seem hypocritical. It can be quite a sad and disappointing realization. It sometimes makes you want to lock yourself inside your own world even more, only to subject yourself to reality when needed or when you feel competent or wise enough.
An example of a 'refutation of the idealized' would be the idealized picture of a romantic relationship you've always dreamed about in your mind ever since you were a kid. This picture is then refuted later in your adult life when relationships gradually (or abruptly) show itself in a manner so complex and chaotic that your visionary mind simply cannot handle. This might make you want to give up relationships altogether. (remember this is just one example)
Of course, the solution is to gain wisdom and rewire our minds towards the principles of realism and cognitive-behavioral approaches, but we may not always be ready for this yet. We may never feel like we are. This self change will eventually come naturally; it should never come abruptly, as you might risk becoming a cynic and/or grow a machiavellian complex.
A reasonable dose of idealized quirky thinking is always healthy. Heck, even a couple spoonfuls more is good; it is what makes you ultimately you. Let realism guide you through life, but don't let it ever rule you.
Of course, the solution is to gain wisdom and rewire our minds towards the principles of realism and cognitive-behavioral approaches, but we may not always be ready for this yet. We may never feel like we are. This self change will eventually come naturally; it should never come abruptly, as you might risk becoming a cynic and/or grow a machiavellian complex.
A reasonable dose of idealized quirky thinking is always healthy. Heck, even a couple spoonfuls more is good; it is what makes you ultimately you. Let realism guide you through life, but don't let it ever rule you.
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian December 30, 2021

A very socially desirable trait to have, especially on the internet or in a ghetto. However, the importance of integrity is often way too overemphasized in places such as an elementary school. It would be great if elementary school principles could stop over-preaching the importance of integrity because no kid really gives a shit until around high school. How about upholding some other equally desirable values such as conscientiousness or impartiality.
Literally every elementary/middle school principle during an assembly: I N T E G R I T Y
Me: Integrity deez nuts!!! gOtEm
Me: Integrity deez nuts!!! gOtEm
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian September 16, 2021

A succinct phrase that unfortunately has to be used whenever a person, despite already doing the best you can to make your point clear, has misinterpreted your point.
Using this phrase is almost essential nowadays when you try to express your opinion on the internet.
Using this phrase is almost essential nowadays when you try to express your opinion on the internet.
Internet user 1: So what you're saying is that people aren't allowed to have personal opinions?
Internet user 2: I ask for you to make an effort to understand me. I am not saying that people's right to freedom of speech should be taken away, but rather that free speech should have limits. Hate speech crosses that limit.
Internet user 2: I ask for you to make an effort to understand me. I am not saying that people's right to freedom of speech should be taken away, but rather that free speech should have limits. Hate speech crosses that limit.
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian June 28, 2020

The mere fact of calling a person by their old firstname when they've already legally changed names.
"Hey Wenfei"
"Ew stop calling me that. I recently changed my name to Joseph, remember?"
"Oh, right... sorry forgot."
"It's okay. I just hate my old name, it sounds so stupid and weird. I feel more like a Joseph, y'know."
Deadnaming
"Ew stop calling me that. I recently changed my name to Joseph, remember?"
"Oh, right... sorry forgot."
"It's okay. I just hate my old name, it sounds so stupid and weird. I feel more like a Joseph, y'know."
Deadnaming
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian June 15, 2021

When ur friend leaves his laptop unattended so you set his browser homepage to Yahoo instead of Google.
by Mary Mary Quite The Contrarian January 22, 2020
