A play on the military radio term 'actual' meaning you are actually speaking to the guy in charge, versus a radio operator.
Primarily used in written communications when the subject is so screwed up that a normal wtf just doesn't cut it. May be used as an outburst when learning about a recent SNAFU.
Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.
After school, The Modells on Jamaica Ave was active. Respectfully.