transpicuous 

the vacillation between knowing one is conspicuous while wanting to be inconspicuous

those recovering from tbi/ptsd, and any other hidden handicap, navigate their best efforts transpicuously.

transpicuous by tidesong13 February 28, 2020

transpicious 

A woman whose facial features, body shape, voice, or gait causes the casual observer to wonder if she is transexual

Gary showed his ticket to Wanda, the sour, transpicious morning conductor, and boarded his train for work

transpicious by The Working Dead December 10, 2013

transpicious 

To be suspicious that a given party is being less than forthcoming about their gender.

Look at the adam's apple on that woman, I'm a bit transpicious about her.

transpicious by Steven Sultan December 10, 2007