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top or bottom 

Terms used for sex between two women or two men. The top is the pleasure giver and the one on bottom is receiving. They are not the same as dom and sub because even though many bottoms are subs and tops are doms, there are variations such as service tops and power bottoms. Some people are also versatile, which means they both top and bottom, not to be confused with switch.
(on tinder)
Person a: Hey cutie
Person b: so are you a top or bottom?
Person a: don't you think it's a bit early to know that?
top or bottom by 10000beez March 16, 2020
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Top or bottom 

A definition for sex. can be for straight or non straight partners. The top is the pleasure giver(a.k.a the one on the top) and the one on bottom is receiving. (aka the one on the bottom)
So.... you a top or bottom?
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top or bottom 

To be on the top or bottom during sex
Sarah:Are you a top or bottom?
Kian:Top cause I fuck girls so much harder on top!

Top or bottom?

Top or bottom, mainly used for asking someone if they're dominant or submissive.
Person 1: Hey, are you top or bottom?
Person 2: I'm usually bottom.
Top or bottom? by Gaybinch August 6, 2017
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well known from south park
rednecks get angrry that future folk took there jobs so they yell
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An Irish phrase meaning shit, derived from ass
(Not to be confused with the literal description of one's buttocks)
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"Hardly. Her music is absolute cheeks."

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