South African slang, used by English speakers as a derogatory term for white Afrikaans speakers, implying stupidity, poverty, yokelism or a lack of social graces. "Spinnekop" is Afrikaans for spider. Derived from the older epithet "rock spider", another insult.
I swear! Him and his up-country spinnekop cousins had better behave, this is a civilised gathering!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.