South African slang, used by English speakers as a derogatory term for white Afrikaans speakers, implying stupidity, poverty, yokelism or a lack of social graces. "Spinnekop" is Afrikaans for spider. Derived from the older epithet "rock spider", another insult.
I swear! Him and his up-country spinnekop cousins had better behave, this is a civilised gathering!
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.