A man who strives to be a Sugar Daddy but just doesn't have the funds to pull it off. ... An older man who dates younger women but nowhere near as wealthy as a "sugar daddy." Not quite the same as the real thing.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.