The oblivion - e.g. the end of all things - from living like packed sardines in suburban neighborhoods where the identical houses are crammed together grid style with no yards or space or character. Denizens of sublivion will often make fun of residents of trailer parks in demonstration of the superiority of their lifestyle as a “homeowner”.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.