Whenever somebody's friend, or family member, drops them off at their house and drives off without saying a word or even coming in for a moment.
Carl gets dropped off at his house by Lenny, who is driving. Before Carl has a chance to suggest or say anything to Lenny as he gets out of the car, Lenny's driving down the road.
Carl: "What a rude guy, Lenny is. I thought we were friends? All he does when he comes around here to drop me off is pull and putt, we've been friends for twenty years and he still hasn't come into my house."
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)