a shower that is required after finding out the crap you just took has stuck to your ass like peanut butter and it's such a mess a shower is required, regardless of circumstances
Dude: The girls are here - what the f' where have you been?
Self: Dude, sorry I'm late for the double date, I had to take a non-optional before I left home.
Derived from the Xhosa word “ukunonophela” which means to do something with utmost care. Nonopha then serves as the verb that means “Care”. These are by far the most considerate, warm at heart people. They have so much empathy and honesty.