The act of making plans with someone then not fulfilling the plans you made.
Person 1:Dude are we gonna skate on Friday?
Person 2: Yeah man I'm down anytime!!
-_-_ Friday_-_-
Person 1: Hey man what time are you coming?
Person 2: Dude I can't go Person 1: ARE YOU SERIOUSLY NEFFING ME RIGHT NOW?? FFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU...
Neffing is posting on a forum about basically nothing in order to drive up post totals.
An example is replying with only a smiley or one word such as "lol": this causes a lot of useless post. Rules often include - no neffing or you'll have your post count or rank significantly reduced!