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Pronunciation: miss-TALL-jee-uh

Noun

The feeling of nostalgia for a period, place, or experience that was unpleasant or miserable while you were actually living through it.

Mistolgia occurs when you clearly remember that the experience was miserable and do not falsely remember it as better than it was, yet still feel nostalgia or longing for that time.

A blend of misery + nostalgia.

Unlike rose-tinted nostalgia, mistolgia does not make the past seem better than it really was. The misery remains part of the memory; you simply miss that time despite it.
“Those years were miserable and I definitely wouldn’t relive them, but I still get mistolgia thinking about them.”

“I hated that place when I was there, but somehow I feel mistolgia whenever I think about it.”

“Looking through those old photos gave me a weird sense of mistolgia.”
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Misalgia 

The feeling of sentimental distaste for the past, typically for a period or place with negative personal associations.
Listening to Crazy Frog gives me the strongest feeling of misalgia, I used to hate it! Wanna go listen to some of their songs?
Misalgia by Picklwarrior1 June 10, 2016
Related Words

mistelia 

mistelia is the ship name for misty day x cordelia goode, from american horror story
mistelia is better than foxxay cordelia’s name isn’t even foxx anymore
i ship mistelia so badly
mistelia by cordeliagoode May 5, 2021

mostalgia 

What all men who have taken part in Movember experience on December 1 after shaving. Because, let's face it, all men secretly want to hang on to the luxuriant item of face furniture they have cultivated for the previous 30 days.
Dude, you look very fresh faced - and depressed for some reason.
Nah, just a touch of mostalgia. It'll pass.
mostalgia by MacheteMick November 21, 2013

Mistolin 

A cheap tacky and smelly latin floor cleaner. Only women who where wooden shoes and those nightgowns called Moo-moos use this product. They can be found in most ghettos mopping the sidewalks with mistolin. The product is also used for laundry, dishes, babyformula, and to cure the common cold in most latin homes.
Yo my kid is coughin i need a quater to get some mistolin. OR The sidewalk is starting to look dirty it needs a mistolin mopping. and finnaly... Miha we ran outta cookin oil.. get some mistolin out the cabinet!
Mistolin by Toofy August 31, 2004

Mistonga 

This dance is very mistonga
Mistonga by Elgimbosimbo April 4, 2020
omg did you hear about cordelias new girlfriend???
mist3lia right?
yes thay’re such a cute couple🤗🤗🤗🤗
mist3lia by cordelia goode June 19, 2021
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