abbreviation "let me live my life," used to justify one's actions in response to a comment or act directed at a person in attempt to prohibit said person from making independent decisions or to interfere with a person's current circumstance. Generally jusifying an unwise decision.
"You really should try to study instead of going out the night before a big test"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.