As a woman you're minding your business, while waiting for a meatloaf take-out order. When this obnoxious guy keeps making a play and hitting on you. Many times, you tell him you're not interested, but he keeps on and on. Out of frustration you say in a harsh way, "Man! You don't want this, Imadude!" Suddenly, he backs off with a weird-ass look on his face.
Hey baby, you wanna get with me? Let's have a drink or two, Sweetheart. Come on baby, let me buy you a drink.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.