A term referring to an extremely arduous episode or event such as being involved in a car crash or meeting your boyfriends/girlfriends parents. Believed to be derived from gruel the watery soup provided in workhouses during Dickensian times ie "please sir can I have some more gruel?".
Geoff had an a absolute fucking grueller when his foreskin got caught in the car door!
A loser who never has any funds and is always looking to bum from a friend. Also used as a term of affection amongst pot-smokers (who often don't have any money and bum bong hits from their friends).
Jefe you're such a grueller, I can't believe you sucked down the last of my buds!
A person or couple (gruelers) who tries to push him/herself into a social scene that is beyond their status or out of their social norm - ending up taxing the whole party.
Also a person who tries too hard to be friends with a specific group of tight knit friends and does not fit in.
Justin: Yeah, I just got a new H2 after I got back from Whistler and it barely fits in the garage of my new 5BR House in Stratville. You'd think they'd design garages bigger. You been to Jackson?
Regular: I've been out there, it's nice. Excuse me. (turning to regular chick) "what a freakin' grueler."
A distinct American English dialect which uses a variety of code-words to denote forms of contraband. Also included are variants of normal words or phrases, mixed up for humorous effect.
That dude spoketrue gruellerese when he mentioned how safe he was when he macked out at the Mood Fart.
A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.