good trans 

When someone expects a transperson to be a kind, considerate, ever-compassionate, long-suffering, patient educator on the simplest of things relating to the "Trans Experience." Up to and including: googling common search terms, offering incredibly personal information re: surgery, HRT, and presentation at the drop of the hat, and being 'understanding' when they out us to people without our consent.

I really hate it when cis acquaintances expect me to play Good Trans to satiate their morbid curiosity. Don't they know we have a right privacy too?

good trans by Kai Alexander August 25, 2017

Good Transphobe 

A person who is averse to the concept of being transgender, but who is not a bad person.

Tom violently attacks transgender people because he is a bad person and also a transphobe.

Jerry does not believe the story that some people are the opposite of their real gender, just because they say they are...but he doesn't treat them badly. He is a good person, so that makes him a good transphobe.

A person who doesn't believe the story that transgender people truly are the opposite gender of what they clearly are, is not automatically a bad person. But a person who automatically attacks and "cancels" everyone who doesn't believe everything said by transgender people, that is a tyrant and a bad person.

If you want to pretend to be something you are not, go ahead. But if we say "I can see that you are lying", they doesn't give you the right to cancel us. We have a right to not agree with lies! As long as we are not attacking you, leave us alone.

Jerry rolls his eyes when a man claims to be a woman, but he doesn't treat them badly, because he is a good transphobe.

Good Transphobe by RealHonestDefinition April 1, 2023