11 definitions by RealHonestDefinition
Referring to a person by a name they made up instead of their real birth name, especially when referring to them by this new name is meant to give legitimacy to the idea that the person is no longer who/what they actually are. For example, if a person is male but wants others to think of him as a female, he might change his name to Caitlyn, and demand to be called Caitlyn, demonizing anyone who calls him by his actual name. He wants you to stagename him. If you do not, he will say that you are "deadnaming" him, a term used to manipulate people into feeling guilty for being honest.
Bruce said "Hey, stop calling me Bruce! Call me Caitlyn, to show that you fully agree with the idea that I'm a woman. Do it or else you are not a good friend. Just accept me as being anything I claim to be!"
His honest friend said "But that would be stagenaming you, and it would make it seem like I agree that you are a woman. You are not a woman, so forcing me to call you by your stage name is forcing me to lie. Forcing me to lie is not something a good friend would do. Just accept me as being honest!"
His honest friend said "But that would be stagenaming you, and it would make it seem like I agree that you are a woman. You are not a woman, so forcing me to call you by your stage name is forcing me to lie. Forcing me to lie is not something a good friend would do. Just accept me as being honest!"
by RealHonestDefinition July 18, 2023
A woman who is great at making a guy fall in love with her, telling him for years that she loves him and wants to marry him...but is actually just pretending to love him.
That dhinna seemed to be extremely cute, sweet, warm, caring and loveable...but then she left me and claimed she was forced by her family to leave me. She kept saying things to give me hope that we would get back together some day, but after years of painful waiting, she finally admitted that she had never actually loved me. Thanks for teaching me that life is pointless and that nothing beautiful is actually real. Because of you, I now look forward to life ending. You're the very definition of a dhinna.
by RealHonestDefinition June 26, 2022
A person who is averse to the concept of being transgender, but who is not a bad person.
Tom violently attacks transgender people because he is a bad person and also a transphobe.
Jerry does not believe the story that some people are the opposite of their real gender, just because they say they are...but he doesn't treat them badly. He is a good person, so that makes him a good transphobe.
A person who doesn't believe the story that transgender people truly are the opposite gender of what they clearly are, is not automatically a bad person. But a person who automatically attacks and "cancels" everyone who doesn't believe everything said by transgender people, that is a tyrant and a bad person.
If you want to pretend to be something you are not, go ahead. But if we say "I can see that you are lying", they doesn't give you the right to cancel us. We have a right to not agree with lies! As long as we are not attacking you, leave us alone.
Tom violently attacks transgender people because he is a bad person and also a transphobe.
Jerry does not believe the story that some people are the opposite of their real gender, just because they say they are...but he doesn't treat them badly. He is a good person, so that makes him a good transphobe.
A person who doesn't believe the story that transgender people truly are the opposite gender of what they clearly are, is not automatically a bad person. But a person who automatically attacks and "cancels" everyone who doesn't believe everything said by transgender people, that is a tyrant and a bad person.
If you want to pretend to be something you are not, go ahead. But if we say "I can see that you are lying", they doesn't give you the right to cancel us. We have a right to not agree with lies! As long as we are not attacking you, leave us alone.
Jerry rolls his eyes when a man claims to be a woman, but he doesn't treat them badly, because he is a good transphobe.
by RealHonestDefinition April 2, 2023
Aversion to being harassed and cancelled simply for not believing the current popular belief that a person can be anything they want, just by saying they are.
There is so much transphobiaphobia that it's causing me to have transphobiaphobiaphobia! Now I'm afraid to be honest and real, referring to people by their real gender, because I might get cancelled! I wish they could just be their true selves, and not lie.
by RealHonestDefinition April 2, 2023
Hatred towards people who are averse to homosexuality, especially when directed at people whose "homophobia" does not hurt anyone.
Tom hates gays and does everything he can to prevent them from getting jobs and living their lives in peace. He is an extreme homophobe, and it would be reasonable to hate him. Jerry is disgusted by what gays do, but he doesn't try to take away the rights of gays. His friend George asked "what do you think about homosexuality?", and Jerry said "I find it disgusting". George replied "I disagree with you, but you have a right to your opinion", because he does not have homophobiaphobia. But Phil overheard, and he shouted "You monster! I'm going to 'out' you on social media, and boycott your family business until it goes bankrupt, so your family will lose their home, and I will make sure everyone treats you like garbage for the rest of your life!"
Phil has extreme homophobiaphobia.
Homophobiaphobes are zealots. They need to become more inclusive of cultural diversity! If a "homophobe" is leaving you alone, then leave him/her alone too. If you really need to, go after people like Tom, until they stop what they are doing, and then leave him alone after he stops. But don't harass people like Jerry at all. If you can do that, we can do the same for you. Then we'll have inclusion and peace.
But people with homophobiaphobia do not want that. They will only be satisfied with 100% destruction of anyone who disagrees with them in any way whatsoever.
Tom hates gays and does everything he can to prevent them from getting jobs and living their lives in peace. He is an extreme homophobe, and it would be reasonable to hate him. Jerry is disgusted by what gays do, but he doesn't try to take away the rights of gays. His friend George asked "what do you think about homosexuality?", and Jerry said "I find it disgusting". George replied "I disagree with you, but you have a right to your opinion", because he does not have homophobiaphobia. But Phil overheard, and he shouted "You monster! I'm going to 'out' you on social media, and boycott your family business until it goes bankrupt, so your family will lose their home, and I will make sure everyone treats you like garbage for the rest of your life!"
Phil has extreme homophobiaphobia.
Homophobiaphobes are zealots. They need to become more inclusive of cultural diversity! If a "homophobe" is leaving you alone, then leave him/her alone too. If you really need to, go after people like Tom, until they stop what they are doing, and then leave him alone after he stops. But don't harass people like Jerry at all. If you can do that, we can do the same for you. Then we'll have inclusion and peace.
But people with homophobiaphobia do not want that. They will only be satisfied with 100% destruction of anyone who disagrees with them in any way whatsoever.
by RealHonestDefinition April 2, 2023
A form of sexism which promotes negative stereotypes or disparaging views about members of an entire gender. This can apply to sexism against women or against men.
Some sources provide a very limited definition of hostile sexism by claiming that it should only refer to sexism in which people who do not conform to traditional gender roles are viewed in a negative manner, with the goal of oppressing the targeted gender.
However, since hostility can take on many other forms, and since sexism has many goals, and since sexism can be targeted at any gender, it would be a very narrow-minded oversight to limit the definition of hostile sexism by applying it only to situations in which the sexist is disparaging members of the targeted gender specifically because of them not conforming to traditional gender roles, and/or because the sexist specifically wants to promote oppression.
Disparaging a person simply for being a member of a particular gender is always sexism, even if the sexist's motivation is not caused by their target not conforming to traditional gender roles. And it is clearly hostile to encourage others to view the targeted gender as inferior, even if oppression is not the stated intention. Therefore, all disparaging of an entire gender should be defined as hostile sexism, no matter what the stated motivation or goal is.
Some sources provide a very limited definition of hostile sexism by claiming that it should only refer to sexism in which people who do not conform to traditional gender roles are viewed in a negative manner, with the goal of oppressing the targeted gender.
However, since hostility can take on many other forms, and since sexism has many goals, and since sexism can be targeted at any gender, it would be a very narrow-minded oversight to limit the definition of hostile sexism by applying it only to situations in which the sexist is disparaging members of the targeted gender specifically because of them not conforming to traditional gender roles, and/or because the sexist specifically wants to promote oppression.
Disparaging a person simply for being a member of a particular gender is always sexism, even if the sexist's motivation is not caused by their target not conforming to traditional gender roles. And it is clearly hostile to encourage others to view the targeted gender as inferior, even if oppression is not the stated intention. Therefore, all disparaging of an entire gender should be defined as hostile sexism, no matter what the stated motivation or goal is.
A female talk show host stated that women are superior, and she lectured that all leaders should be women, and then she called for a campaign to make it happen. Her male guest stated that women are trying to oppress men, and that there are already enough women leaders. It is baffling that only the guest was accused of hostile sexism, and not the host.
by RealHonestDefinition January 9, 2023
Tom violently attacks gays because he is a bad person and also a homophobe. Jerry is disgusted by gays, but he doesn't treat them badly, because he is a good person, so that makes him a good homophobe. A person who is disgusted by gays is not automatically a bad person, but a person who automatically attacks and "cancels" everyone whose thoughts and beliefs they disagree with, that is a tyrant and a bad person.
by RealHonestDefinition April 2, 2023