For example:
man 1 can work
hard all his life and make millions and
literally be not giving a fuck about what has happened in his life
AND
man 2 can be homeless and mope and be
sad about his position in life, therefore he fails in not giving a fuck and in this senario he is the "loser"
As opposed to the common misconception that man 2 gives less of a fuck because he hasn't worked a day in his life.