The sex act where a man, upon receiving a woman's permission, inserts the index finger (no further than the middle knuckle) into the woman's anus during vaginal intercourse, and gently slides this portion of the index finger back and forth.
We find ourselves in the midst of a conversation between Jane and her friend Sarah that has stumbled upon the topic of anal sex, let's observe.
Jane: James has been asking for it forever, I don't know Sarah, like, I think he could be the one. What should I do?
Sarah: just have him start slow, with "the gentleman's tip" and work your way up from there
An institution reserved only for the prestigious, where the elite learn and master the art and conduct of a gentleman. The "dashing good looks" is the most difficult preliminary hurdle. Once a candidate has passed this excruciating examine the burden of relief is lifted from the candidate. The course is a mere 7 months long. The candidates receive the title "Gentleman" after completion of a grueling 6 months of knowledge.
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. PenguinBooks,1992. p. 38)