a person acting like an asshole (a-hole) in a gay
fashion1: a (supposedly) straight person acting flamboyantly gay in jest, but is really not that
funny2: a (supposedly) straight person acting flamboyantly gay in order to
make a second person look more gay, but only succeeding in making their self look gay
Gay Hole: -to
man #1- "Oh WOW! I just LOVE what you did with your hair today!"
Man #1: "Oh, wow, Thanks! Yeah, I just sort of feathered it..."
Gay Hole: -to
man #2- -whispers- "You know I'm just kidding with that, right?"
Man #2: "Yeah, well why not just kid about something else. You look like a Gay-hole."