femme daddy

“A femme daddy is a badass woman who will take care of you. She has her shit together. She knows how to do grownup shit, like make reservations. She’s good in bed. She has sophisticated taste in restaurants. She has femme energy and fierce femme style. She’ll open the door for you, and later order you a car home. A femme daddy is the opposite of a fuckboy." -Zara Barrie (for GO Magazine)

While Mommi is an aesthetic, "Daddy is complicated and can be hard to define. Daddy is a feel."

-Erin Sullivan and Kayla Upadhyaya (for AutoStraddle)

When you say, "She's a femme daddy" they'll ask, “How can she be a daddy? I thought all daddies were butches?” -Zara Barrie

femme daddy by femme_M December 12, 2021

Femme Daddy

A rare gem typically found in the leather/kink community, a female identified femme/feminine woman who can rock a skirt, lipstick, and other girlish accoutrement who personifies a Daddy style in their D/s relationships - firm, structured, constructive, while being loving and supportive.

It makes me hard when my femme daddy ashes her cigar in my hand.

My femme daddy beat me so hard last night I have bruises all over.

Femme Daddy by Daddy Rose May 7, 2012