de-empathify 

No longer indulging in over empathetic notions or actions at the expense of one's self or others.

There's an uptick in people who de-empathify due to an uptick in more predatory behavior due to societal acceptance.

de-empathify by J Lekan February 13, 2025

De-empathization 

The ability to understand and share the feelings of another but suspending that ability until the participant(s) are seen as worthy of that empathy.

There's an uptick in de-empathization amongst women due to more progressive times.

De-empathization by J Lekan August 26, 2023