The opposite of Copacetic. Something unsatisfactory and pathetic which you do not wish to be a part of.
You: Hey, Bro. What do you want for dinner?
Lame Friend: IDK, Man. I was thinking of just going to Patty's Cheap Patties and getting a couple dollar burgers.
You: That sounds copathetic to me, dude.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.