A person who causes you to lose the will to live just by being there. Someone so depressing that you can't stand being around them. Someone you never invite them anywhere because they always cause you to "bleak out".
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.