A black man sticking his balls in said females ass, (usually a female of the mudshark persuasion) and then proceeding to stick his penis in her pussy at the same time, while saying what he is doing; "Balls in the ass, dick in the pussy" or Bitaditp. There are usually a few blacks guys standing around masturbating and exclaiming "AWW NIGGA!" or "Freak dat bitch 'Tone"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.