Consuming large quantities of alcohol with your best pals and not including unfamiliar acquaintances. Usually accomplished in a more private setting i.e. a man cave.
Yo Holly stop getting hit on by that dude and come over here for a best boys chug.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.