A backbitcher is someone who betrays others, often by speaking harmfully about them when they are not present. This behavior can manifest in various ways, such as undermining someone's work or spreading gossip to damage their reputation. In both personal and professional contexts, backbitchers may aim to prevent their targets from succeeding or to sour their relationships with others. Synonyms to backstabber.
"Jack proved to be a backbitcher when he betrayed his former friend and colleague for personal gain.”
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.