A terrible roleplayer for the character China from the anime/manga Axis Powers Hetalia. The character China says "-aru" very occasionally after his sentences and the roleplayer puts it after every freaking sentence.
"I love you too, aru. Will you marry me aru? Please say yes, aru."
"OH MY GOD MAN YOU'RE SUCH AN ARUDATIVE JUST STOP.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.