A feminine name usually given to a person with red hair and/or a fair skin. Alephairs are strong women even when they are young, they have a flamboyant attitude around all groups of people. Alephairs are hard to find.
Also can be replaced when saying someone has red hair, red hair they are an Alephair
Little Mermaid is an Alephair
Wendy is an Alephair
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
FRIEND A: "Did you just take a stealthie of me?"
FRIEND B (turning phone around): "no I was just using snapchat's new filter, see?"