A "yearncel" is a combination of "yearn" and "incel." It refers to men, who yearn for romantic or sexual relationships but find themselves involuntarily celibate, meaning they are unable to achieve such relationships despite wanting them.
The term "incel" is mostly about the frustration and resentment about their lack of romantic or sexual success. while as for the term "yearncel" it emphasizes the deep longing or yearning.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.