is a pejorative term meaning "(of a women) to comment on or explain to a man what he thinks or feels often in the form of a verbal attack in a condescending over simplified and inaccurate manner, discounting or denigrating the mans emotions as unimportant
This is rooted in the assumption that women are superior at emotions and are always the victims of men
She attacked me verbally woexplaning what I am thinking and feeling and would not listen to what i was saying about my own feelings
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)