Vutlhari usually a young man, is incredibly handsome and smart. He is a chick magnetic however sadly he doesn't know how to talk to them. This is the downfall of being a Vutlhari
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.