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unconventionally attractive 

Someone who looks average looking at first glance (and not the type to get the hottest dating partners),
however, upon closer look,

their "average looks" interestingly, and deceptively are an illusion,
and can still use their looks to attract women/men.

Why?
Because physical attraction is *binary*.
A person with even just a few physical flaws can still pull the best since they're 'good looking enough'

Unfortunately, only ~20% of average looking people can use the title of unconventionally attractive.

The missing link for the remaining 80% of average looking people is lack of babyface, youth, head full of hair, exoticness (this is where race comes into play), and innocence.

Some of the most popular types of unconventionally attractive men include:
babyface boyish dudes
above average looking ethnic men that (Hollywood-based) society would consider a 6/10 in looks

NOTE:

Unconventionally attractive is NOT personality-based.
Chad: "Yo how the FUCK did is that boyish Indian guy going out with that hot blonde? I thought that ONLY buff tall guys like me with pronounced eye ridge, sharp jaw, hunter eyes, caucasian, and long wavy hair are qualified for girls THAT pretty. Must be his personality..."
Bill: "NO. It's not his personality. It's unironically his looks, believe or not. You see, he's unconventionally attractive, physically. Hot girls don't necessarily choose the 'best looking' guy by conventional standards. Surprise! All 200 million pretty women don't have the same exact taste in men. Stacy over there unironically REALLY digs effimate prettyboy types rather than beefcakes, so in a way, her pussy doesn't get wet when she sees you, mr.chad.
Chad: What is life... I've been lied to all this time. (mind explodes)

Unconventionalism

A religion or ideology that differs from mainstream religions or ideologies. This term does not just refer to a single religion or ideology but rather a collection of religions and ideologies.

Origin: "Un-" (meaning "not") + "Conventional" (synonym of "mainstream") + "-Ism".
My religion is distinct from all others. It is a form of unconventionalism.
Unconventionalism by Shugunou March 18, 2023

Unconventionalism

A discreet philosophical manifesto that actively practices rejection of societal foundations in favor of complex, modified, and flexible utility of connection, sustained passively through compatible, interchangeable, and autonomous means.
As a Noun:

"Their relationship between each other towards the hatred of the society is deeply rooted in the Unconventionalism manifesto."

As a Concept:

"I don't mind that if the entire universe exiled us; we would still be connected together through unconventional means.”
Unconventionalism by qwyxn June 21, 2026

Unconventionalism

A philosophical manifesto that actively practices rejection of societal foundations in favor of complex, custom-built, and flexible utility of connection, sustained particularly through compatible, interchangeable, and autonomous means.
As a Noun:

"Their relationship between each other towards the hatred of the society is deeply rooted in the Unconventionalism manifesto."

As a Concept:

"I don't mind that if the entire universe exiled us; we would still be connected together through unconventional means.”
Unconventionalism by qwyxn June 21, 2026
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square grouper

Nickname given to bales of marijuana thrown overboard or out of airplanes. Origin is reportedly from members of the US Coast Guard in the area of Southern Florida.
"Base we've got some square groupers floating outside of Miami harbor."
square grouper by slipsheet November 6, 2004
Word of the Day on October 7, 2026
A girl who does ballet and only talks about ballet. Her schedule is filled with dance classes which does not allow her to do any other activity.
"Hey, do you know that girl Sally?"

"Yeah, she's kind of annoying. All she ever talks about it ballet."

"Wow, what a Bunhead."

"Hey Sally, you want to hang out this weekend?"
"I can't, I have dance."
"You're such a Bunhead."

"Yeah... I know."
Bunhead by Jen00 October 24, 2014
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trucker's tan 

A sunburn or suntan focused on the left arm. It is caused by the left side of the body being the only half that gets exposed to sunlight while driving. Presumably, it would be located on the right side of the body in countries where they drive on the left side of the road.
I had a trucker's tan after driving for 10 straight hours on a sunny day.
Word of the Day on October 5, 2026
The phenomenon where adults salivate at children's toys
Every time I walk into the toy aisle, I catch myself kidulting over the latest action figures and LEGO sets!
kidulting by Emotional Cruiser October 12, 2025
Word of the Day on October 4, 2026
British slang for a scientist or technical expert, esp . when the speaker is not certain of the expert’s specific field of study. Not necessarily derogatory, but typically used by persons without a technical background. In the US, the equivalent would be “egghead”, “squint”, or “geek.”

Origin of the word is unknown. Started sometime in World War 2. Given the typical evolution of British slang, could easily have started because what these experts did was confusing or “baffling” to the common person.
According to the boffins downstairs, the murderer used a serrated blade.
Boffin by Agnon February 11, 2023
Word of the Day on October 3, 2026

Pee Calculus

When you have to pee in a movie but don’t want to miss anything, and must do the following mental equation: will the amount I have to pee cause enough discomfort to diminish my attention capacity for the remainder of the movie to an extent which is greater than the amount of the movie I would miss by making a mad dash to the restroom.
I saw Satantango last night, wonderful film but by the 5th hour I had to start doing pee calculus.
Pee Calculus by anorlondo October 1, 2026
Word of the Day on October 2, 2026
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