When a girl and a guy are laying in bed, on a couch, on the floor, in a hammock, etc. and the girl is laying behind the guy in order to avoid any touching of the male privates even through clothing.
Kate: Last night we were laying in the tommy position on the hammock
Jenna: Why?
Kate: Cause he is a pansy.
Jenna: Why?
Kate: Cause he is a pansy.
by Sack boy January 2, 2009