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This and That 

Random past sexual exploits with your ex(s). Used in conversation when trying to avoid the juicy details.
Beth: Hey, Terry, what all did you and Mimi "do?"

Terry: Um...this and that...ya know.
This and That by Terrrrrry May 9, 2006

this and that 

Everything between the front of a person's waist and the back of that person's waist.
Take off your undies. I feel the need to lick this and that.
this and that by chrome7 February 2, 2013

This and that 

various unspecified things.
"they stayed up chatting about this and that"
This and that by Arminkshipper April 19, 2025

This is this and that is that 

"It is what it is", but for people locked in a Library, Forced to serve a Robot and have to Fight people to turn them into books
"Hey man, I'm sorry but... I kinda killed your wife in a hit and run..."
"Oh well, This is this and that is that"
"... Dude... That was Literally your wife-"

The This and the That 

"The This and the That" is an expression used to summarize key points in a conversation without actually saying what "this" is or what "that" is. Using the phrase assumes the audience knows what "this and the that" refers to, or they can infer from the rest of the conversation. Can expedite a conversation rapidly to get to the point.

It is customary to follow the phase "a this and the that" with the "that and the this," - everyone gets it.
I'm late for work but it's because the kids were whining, dogs needed walking, dishes left out overnight, the this and the that... and the that and the this... I'm an hour late!

.9.The more others run this way and that preaching doom and gloom the more you must refuse to worry about what’s going on. Deep down you know it will all come good in the end, so start the weekend early and have yourself some fun.9.

.9.The more others run this way and that preaching doom and gloom the more you must refuse to worry about what’s going on. Deep down you know it will all come good in the end, so start the weekend early and have yourself some fun.9.
.9.The more others run this way and that preaching doom and gloom the more you must refuse to worry about what’s going on. Deep down you know it will all come good in the end, so start the weekend early and have yourself some fun.9.
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Me: Poggers!
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