Thanorguilt

Thanorguilt
(noun)

The crushing emotional state of feeling like you’ve just come from your own funeral — carrying the grief of the victim, the guilt of the murderer, and the emptiness of the mourner all at once.

That weird cocktail of self-destruction and sorrow when you realize you both caused your own downfall and are stuck grieving it.
“After ending that relationship I sabotaged myself, I was drowning in straight-up thanorguilt.”
by Sakurakage August 16, 2025
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