If you want a person to come visit you out of town, across town, or to an event, and that person replies “send for me,” they are basically saying pay for their way to go.
a slightly outdated phrase that is quickly making a comeback by those who feel important enough to require personalisedinvitations to attend menial events within their day.
An expression of disgust or annoyance generally at the wanton stupidity or crassness of another, a facetious request for the Last Rites, indicating one has thrown his or her hand in, and given up altogether.