The definition of pulling a livya is where you act as if you have nothing left in life and your depressed when you aren't, which guilt trips the person into doing something the other person wants e.g, staying in a relationship with them, it is most commonly used by women in situations.
'Yo did you hear Jessica is pulling a livya on John bro, his life's fucked now'
'Oh dayummm isn't that where you guilt trip them, that must hurt'
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)