(verb) To pochato. To bend at the hips and bounce one's tokus (the buttox) backwards into an opponent. May be used as a defense mechanism or as a popular dance move.
Yo dawg did you see that chick pochato that other chick away from that dude last night! I was like Dayyyuuumm Ginaaaa!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.