Minajatwa is a French word meaning threesome, normally referred to in a sexual manner. If two men have sex with one woman at the same time, or if two women have sex with a man at the same time, then it is a minajatwa, or threesome.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.