When a seemingly heterosexual man likes to engage in sex with other men butt keeps it's on the down low.
Often in anonymous situations, and would more then likely deny if called out.
After Jim couldn't find a woman to sleep with at the party he goes on grindr to find a male to seek release and switches from heterosexual male to a down low booty banger
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.