A credibility contest between two men, where the truth of exactly what was verbally expressed is in question. This situation usually arises because there were no third-party witnesses, credible recordings, nor other facts that can substantiate one particular version of the story.
This neologism emerged out of the press reports that President Donald Trump had pressured FBI Director James Comey to drop the FBI's investigation into Michael Flynn's involvement with Russian officials.
This neologism emerged out of the press reports that President Donald Trump had pressured FBI Director James Comey to drop the FBI's investigation into Michael Flynn's involvement with Russian officials.
Running out of intelligent things to say, the reporter unimaginatively stated that the James Comey memo situation was essentially a "He said, he said." type of affair.
by TDP41000 May 17, 2017

An argument between a guy and a gal where the points made on either side can't be proven convincingly enough by either party to someone who has no clue what they're arguing about. Further exacerbated because you have no idea if either person is exaggerating or telling the truth and so nothing can be resolved. You know someone is lying about something, you just can't tell who. Usually the argument revolves around the relationship, money (who spends more on who), or some other pointless crap. Usually they've reached a point in their relationship where they really shouldn't be together and they're just arguing about anything and everything just to argue. Lawsuits can come from this.
Guy: "This b**** told me that she's never been with anybody before, but I found out she's been with a dude who died 3 years ago and didn't tell me about it!"
Gal: "That wasn't a romantic relationship! He was gay! I was just his friend!"
Third party: "Yeah, I can't tell if either of you is telling the truth. The dude's dead and so any proof of him being gay probably died with him if we was in the closet to everybody else. Gal, the gay card could be an excuse to get out of a lie. And you, guy, you could just be a jealous jackass and making this stuff up. It's a classic he said she said."
Gal: "That wasn't a romantic relationship! He was gay! I was just his friend!"
Third party: "Yeah, I can't tell if either of you is telling the truth. The dude's dead and so any proof of him being gay probably died with him if we was in the closet to everybody else. Gal, the gay card could be an excuse to get out of a lie. And you, guy, you could just be a jealous jackass and making this stuff up. It's a classic he said she said."
by thePenciler August 27, 2010

1)Gossip passed from one person to another before it gets to the person that is being gossiped about.
he said she said example...
1)"sherry-ann said that paul said that amy said that will said that lee-anne said that elisha said that jade said that james said he licked you out!"
"yeh well you can tell sherry-ann to tell paul to tell amy to tell will to tell lee-anne to tell elisha to tell jade that none of it's true. james is making up lies because i wouldn't dump my bf for him!"
1)"sherry-ann said that paul said that amy said that will said that lee-anne said that elisha said that jade said that james said he licked you out!"
"yeh well you can tell sherry-ann to tell paul to tell amy to tell will to tell lee-anne to tell elisha to tell jade that none of it's true. james is making up lies because i wouldn't dump my bf for him!"
by Elz-ox March 08, 2008

Mark: hey Brett what u doin tonight?
Brett: I dunno, let's get blackout drunk and find some ladies for a game of he said, she said
Brett: I dunno, let's get blackout drunk and find some ladies for a game of he said, she said
by gedankedank September 28, 2018

While making out with a chick, use your tounge to make contact with her uvula causing her to vomit into your mouth. You then vomit into her mouth and continue to make out.
Guy 1: Dude, I got plastered at this party and started making out with this chick.
Guy 2: Things get any where?
Guy 3: No, I did not have a condum. But she did introduce me to the "He Said She Said."
Guy 2: Things get any where?
Guy 3: No, I did not have a condum. But she did introduce me to the "He Said She Said."
by M Stonewall April 30, 2010

by TheGeneralGenitalsPranksterian May 15, 2025

Is he said they said guys!
You "It's 'he said they said' guys! Ignore the fact entirely that you're reading what he's writing on a site to which he doesn't have access, people are falling all over themselves to avoid talking about what is happening to him, and that we are recording him in his own home while he poops and filthy YouTube sluts are watching Hym poop AND at work and sculpting what we say around what he says and does and then go ahead and ignore the fact entirely that they ARE, IN FACT, doing the weaponized schizophrenia to him, we and see it happening, and that he was right about being able to make AI, he was telling the truth about everything and that is does everything he said it would do.
You "It's 'he said they said' guys! Ignore the fact entirely that you're reading what he's writing on a site to which he doesn't have access, people are falling all over themselves to avoid talking about what is happening to him, and that we are recording him in his own home while he poops and filthy YouTube sluts are watching Hym poop AND at work and sculpting what we say around what he says and does and then go ahead and ignore the fact entirely that they ARE, IN FACT, doing the weaponized schizophrenia to him, we and see it happening, and that he was right about being able to make AI, he was telling the truth about everything and that is does everything he said it would do.
We are using it as a pretext to steal his success away. Whatever the other ones did is what they did and it ranges from suicide to mass murder to getting bought by the political class and leaving everyone else behind... So yeah... Ignore all that... And then keep my secret for me so I don't get in trouble for participating in this... And then I'll just keep being rich (possibly off of money that HE MADE) and you can just keep my secret for me. And ignore those pesky dead-kids. Urgh! They are the worst. And ignore the fact that they convinced you to take the other side of this and it ruined your career. Keep doing them a favor by staying on their side OR go to the other team because their are 3 teams in this and hope it doesn't happen again. WHICH IT WILL. Because if we can get away with screwing over an AI creating genius... We can also get away with screwing YOU over!"
Hym "........He said they said... Cool. I'll just be here. Doing this. Until you figure it out and if you don't do it right I'll stab a kid or something I donno."
Hym "........He said they said... Cool. I'll just be here. Doing this. Until you figure it out and if you don't do it right I'll stab a kid or something I donno."
by Hym Iam June 28, 2025
