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Gay House 

A house with at least two LGBTQ+ members that engage in sexual activity. In other words, not only are there two gays, but the two gays fuck. If you enter straight, and then you leave straight. No gay conversion of any sort, unless you want to. Then you’ll have to pay the price, which is honestly 1 fucking penny because bills must be paid.
Natalia just moved in with Sam, they're making their place a real gay house.

If I move into a gay house, I'll be better off financially, and mentally.

I live in a gay house, no gay conversion necessary.
Gay House by easyb8ke March 26, 2019

house gay 

Adjective; a word that describes the stereotypical cisgender gay white male. Traditionally they are priveleged, very bitchy and aloof of their surroundings with a heightened sense of self importance. They disguise their ignorance and racism as "sassy".

The house gay can be usually found at trendy bars drinking cosmos and cranberry vodkas, talking and laughing louder than all of their friends. They are notoriously ignorant of other LGBTQ members, notably trans people, and queer people of color. They watch Will & Grace religiously and swear by Lush and Tuesday night happy hour.
House Gay: "Damn sis! Did you just witness that bearded dyke? Straight out of the Bronx Zoo! What the fuck!?"

Friend: "Good lord Tyler....Maybe they're trans? Honestly you really don't have any be talking about how someone is allowed to present unless you yourself are trans. You are such a fucking house gay it's incredible."
house gay by CoffeeGrinder March 19, 2019

gay frat house 

A house that has hella weed and is always parting and the house is always clean.
Damn wyd? Going to the gay frat house.
gay frat house by Fasterbmf April 25, 2021

Gay bibba house

Have you seen a gay bibba house
Gay bibba house by Gay bibba August 5, 2019

Gay Trap House

A trap house with only dudes and fat chicks.
Dude, that place got old, it's like a gay trap house full of fat bitches.
Gay Trap House by NikeT1138 June 28, 2021

House Gay 

When an otherwise straight man of considerable financial means has a close, live-in (usually masculine) gay friend for camaraderie, shared hobbies, garage time and the occasional, casual sexual dalliance. The House Gay is generally a "kept man" and is lodged in a guest house or separate wing of the home from the man's primary partner.
Brad's so lucky Kristen's fine with him having Jake as his House Gay, I wish I could afford one!
House Gay by TheHemingwayGay June 19, 2025
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Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
Soul digger by anonymous November 11, 2026
Word of the Day on November 11, 2026

pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
Word of the Day on November 10, 2026
A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
Word of the Day on November 9, 2026

No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
Word of the Day on November 8, 2026
Ulzzang true definition is "best & "face" = best face in korean. They are basically people with above average looks, sometimes with the use of photoshop and haduri who post their pics online, some becoming internet celebrities.
"Hey, see that chick over there? She's pretty enough to be an ulzzang. :D"
ulzzang by `r i k kit t y February 26, 2008
Word of the Day on November 7, 2026
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